BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

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I don't understand the logic of our fate. It makes us end up with the people we don't want to be with; the situation we don't want to be in and then it makes us do things which we have been avoiding till now. I am not saying it does nothing  good, it does fulfill the fate or dreams of many but when people actually step onto the other side, it is then when they want to escape. I don't know if it's fate working against us or we are playing for the wrong team. Believing in fate or trusting that our decisions, situations and destinies are pre-decided is bizarre. But is it? I am still searching for an answer.
A lot of things keep on happening in everybody's life and frankly speaking the trickiest and disturbing things happen to those who actually try to avoid being into anything unusual and try to lead a simple life. But just as there are people who don't want any noise, there are people who seek shout out loud moments. Seeking adventure is not wrong, in fact it is very healthy for the ones who can handle it. But what I don't understand or what I am trying to understand is how and who decides what will be someone's fate. Then the general answer is our very old friend "KARMA" which according to someone decides his/her fate according to their actions. But is this bitch actually that fair? With all the respect to the KARMA Commitee, if karma does bad to bad people and good to good people then what about the people who are suffering for no reason ? Is it their fault actually or the karma system got faulty when their time came?
 Many weird and bizarre questions emerge when you actually start to believe in fate, destiny and karma. And obviously these are the questions with zillions of answers but nobody is there to decide which one is right. I guess this is how much complicated life gets. The best way I have learnt so far is to keep taking the plunge whenever possible and well, try not to blame it on others when something goes wrong. Taking the support of fate, destiny or karma might help a little but in a bigger picture it is You who matters and You who will always matter.


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