SHE IS A GIRL: Respect her, don't judge her.

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   Two things girls are conscious about are their make up and their figure. Basically make up is used to hide something, that counts as flaws. But the way I see it is that we were made like that. I am not saying  using make up is wrong. But when its obvious that make up is a superficial way of beauty, why do people judge the girls who use makeup as artificial and pretentious ? Because no one is perfect. Everybody has their own way of making themselves look pretty and feel confident whether with or without make up, it shouldn't matter.
  Then again comes up the issue of figure and weight. Every girl definitely wants to look slim and sexy but it is not as easy as it sounds and also not as easy to be maintained as it looks. A girl can have an amazing shape for a duration of her life and some can work hard enough to maintain it and some cannot. Mostly everyone has a phase when they don't care about shape and get fat or just plumped, and they then have to face body shaming. Both of these things determine which girl will be liked and which girl won't be liked and this makes every girl conscious, and in extreme cases it leads to plastic surgeries and starvation. Acceptance of your own body and being comfortable is all that matters.
  Being healthy and not obese in one thing but starving to have that model zero figure is wrong. But then again the society buys what the people sell and not what is real. People want beauty but cannot accept natural beauty. Every girl wants to have an hourglass shape to fit into that crate created by the world, and at this point corsets and starvation seem to be a better idea than just accepting your body as it is.
For the need of pleasing others, going to the wrong extents is the wastage of every person's energy.
  Accept everyone for what god has made them and motivate them to accept themselves as their natural self.
What a person believes about himself or herself is way more valuable than what society or others think.
The idea of being healthy for yourself and not being attractive for others is good.
At the end of the day, do whatever that makes you feel beautiful and confident and not listen to the useless judgment of others. The only opinion that matters for your body is yours.
  With or without make up, fat or not, everyone is beautiful in the body they feel confident and comfortable in.
Stop Body shaming and be who you want to be.
And smile, because YOU are beautiful. 😊


THANKS. 

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