THE RIGHT ONE.

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When you ask a person to tell what a woman or a girl thinks of something, the reply usually is s that they don't know as women are complicated and nobody can understand them. This assumption regarding women is continuously said and proven by men in day to day lives. But is it actually the truth ? Only in rare situations, people are found who can say that they totally understand, what the person beside them is like and that they understand them and their actions can be predicted by them, be it a guy or a girl. The fault is not that of the men who say so, as they cannot understand the person beside them because they are not the right ones together and so they face problems. One can understand a person, no matter a guy or a girl only if they are the right ones together. Misunderstandings are always created between two wrong people trying to put in all their efforts to make it right.But the right ones do not face any misunderstanding and rarely do they have to put in efforts to know what the person with them is thinking in a particular situation. In the process of finding the right person who can totally understand what we think like,we bump into the wrong people and think of them as the right one in the hurry to have a person who thinks like us and then we have to struggle making them understand us. We mostly believe that we have found the right person but we actually don't need to search for the person who is just like us, they just happen to us at the most unexpected time in our life.
This thought of women being complicated is just because it has been highlighted over the years by the men. It is equally difficult for a woman to understand man. You can only understand the thought procedure of a person if you are meant to do so and if you think alike. Blaming woman to be complicated is just a way not to take the responsibility of understanding them. Woman also do the same with the wrong guy, but this situation is not much talked about. I myself have come across many wrong people in my life and after trying soo much to make the wrong person the right one i realised that we can never make a person understand forcefully what we think like. They are always going to formulate the results of a situation like the way they see it and not like the way we do. It is not a matter of a guy or a girl being complicated.It is just that we need to be with the right people and they are never going to think of us as being complicated or telling us that our thoughts are not right for something. Everyone has got a different thought procedure and it can never be stated as complicated. We just need to have the right people to listen to what we think and understand. Finally,we need to have patience to reach the right person in our life. Hurrying will only get ourselves being called as complicated or not being able to understand by anyone which will make us think that we must be wrong. We are not wrong, we just think differently and not like the way you do.
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