INTERNAL BEAUTY.

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We call some people ugly at times. But why ? We have got no right to say so about anybody. Ugly, is not a person or something living. A situation, a circumstance, a behaviour or an action is ugly. Everybody in this world is beautiful in there own way. Some people are beautiful in a different way and just because others are not able to see their beauty does not mean that they can call them ugly. Beauty of a person cannot be defined by their shape, size or colour, it is something which is hidden inside a person and can only be seen by some people around them. In today's world we just look at the outer shell of a person and comment about them. We don't realise how bad those people must have felt about whom we give all kinds of ridiculous comments, by continuously listening to unpleasent thoughts of others about them and then as a result of which they start hating themselves the way they are and try to change them which is not right. It isn't their fault that they look a little different. They may be fat, dark, thin, short, or having a scar and many more things but we are actually no one to call them ugly because they must be internally beautiful which is much more important. We are blind folded and thus are not able to see the actual beauty of a person. I realised this from an incident i came across in my day to day life, when a guy called one of my friends, a person without hair, whereas she had beautiful hair of short length and just because that guy liked long hair, he passed a bad comment about her. I listened to him and walked away. I later realised that i should have stopped him and told him "Not to talk shit about someone according to your likes and dislikes and not to mess with my girls because then i won't spare him. So just to keep shut". But then why did i just kept quite and walked away ? It was because i myself am discouraged about the way i look, i after soo long keep myself even below the average category of the way a beautiful girl should look. And this is not right. This is something which has got stuck in my mind due to what people think about me and the way i look. It is no one else rather than we ourselves, who are capable of deciding how beautiful we are and eventually we are going to meet people in our life who are going to appreciate the beauty within us. So we should never care about the people who think that we aren't beautiful as we know that most of them have closed their eyes and just want to see the outer covering of person. As we all know " Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder". So not all but only a few people exactly come to know how beautiful you are. So just don't care about what the crowd out there thinks of you because you know that you are beautiful and that's what is really important. Just be proud of the way you are.


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  1. Unknown20 August 2015 at 12:35

    Beauty cannot be defined .. But being sarcastic to someone's beauty can be by just one word "JEALOUSY".

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