MEMORIES.

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Memories are made to be cherished. Good or bad, we are never able to forget them. People come in our lives, some stay and some go. At the end of our life we come to know who stayed with us throughout and who went. People come in our life for a reason and after fulfilling what they came for, they vanish somewhere in the dark. Then we just want them back in our lives because we feel incomplete without them as they were the reason for the smile that blossomed on our face. We need to accept that the reason for which they came in our life no more exists and we have to stay with the beautiful memories given by them. We start running behind them as they brought happiness to us and that is very obvious to do because everybody wants to be happy. Some people leave us as they now know that we can live with the memories that they brought to us. Some cannot be with us as we somewhere became the reason for them getting hurt and now they cannot make us happy anymore. They realise that if they stay with us, we'll get hurt which they don't want and so they decide to leave instead of hurting us. We never realise what the person who made us happy went through to bring happiness to us, we never realise that they might have gone out of their way to do so. We just want to be happy and when we realise their sacrifice for us it is too late. Happiness is not something easy to get, you have to earn it. And as it is said roses always come with thorns on them, similarly happiness also comes with a cost we need to pay. People who are able to pay that cost stay happy and the ones who cannot, have to stay happy with the delightful memories. Memories are very important in a person's life. We should always give importance to our happy times and try to make the best possible memories out of them as we never know when our fate will change. THANKS.

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